I am afraid of having no money I am afraid of pain I am afraid for the people I love to not be there anymore I am afraid of dying I am afraid of being lied to I am afraid of having my freedom limited I am afraid of no one liking me I amContinue reading “I am afraid”
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Emotional Support for the current crises
This is a tough time for all of us and there are many ways to support each other and to learn from this. Just a few things to bring awarness too: These are times in which self love and compassion (bases for love and compassion for the next) are crucial The circumstances of staying homeContinue reading “Emotional Support for the current crises”
How do you react when fear hits?
The worldwide situation brings us a great chance to observe what is happening, unless we continue to deny fear as we do with so many of our emotions and pretend we are so “mature”, whilst we simply may know how to hide and not show and share what we feel. Times of uncertainty bring upContinue reading “How do you react when fear hits?”
The drama of being “good”
Good people don’t _____________- fill in whatever comes to mind. Good people aren’t angry, aren’t judgmental, forgive instead of hate, don’t eat junk food, do their homework….. And what if it turns out that you aren’t “good”? Because you actually hate him/her are so anoid about them, because you are totally unwilling to forgive, toContinue reading “The drama of being “good””
Self Check your judgments
Slide number 9 in my workshop “Understanding emotions” is about looking at our own judgements. It’s easier said then done that we have no judgements, of course we do and we need them too, but becoming aware of them means we can start playing with them and than life gets more manageable. Awareness of whatContinue reading “Self Check your judgments”
Smokers reflections
I have been a smoker since I was 15 and I had a 7 year (or maybe it was just 6 years) in between. In the last 5-6 years I have been an on and off smoker and I have been going through the endless battles so many times. It has taught me a lot.Continue reading “Smokers reflections”
Don’t judge your needs – Understand them
We have learnt very well how to misunderstand our needs and how to judge them. Look at the baby birds, would you call them greedy or selfish or judging them for needing so much attention 🙂 Honestly how often do we do this to our own needs, instead of understanding that there was a lackContinue reading “Don’t judge your needs – Understand them”
Recognising self critisism
I spend most of my weekend being quite frustrated and it seamed like I just can’t really put my finger on what is wrong. Yes, I avoid taking the time to stop looking what is wrong, because the result might be even more frustrating and hopeless. So when I finally did, I met Mrs. SelfContinue reading “Recognising self critisism”
Learning by mistake
Learning by mistake is can be very painful, because of the way we learnt to see mistakes. It may involve feeling stupid, ashamed, afraid of not being loved anymore, fear of being abandoned etc. But when we think of it, it is in many cases the natural way of learning something. When we learn toContinue reading “Learning by mistake”
Dark times….Winter Solstice
The shortest day in the year is ahead and some of us might feel the drawing towards the inside and some dormant issues may arise. Winter is the perfect time for DeepRest (depressed) Moments. All the forces of nature retreat to the root power. Ready to dream a new dream, ready to prepare for theContinue reading “Dark times….Winter Solstice”