Here is what I observe about blame. It is a great tool to start feeling your anger.
When things happen “to” us and others have done them “to” us, then we can allow ourselfes to feel angry and from their get in touched with our pain and from there when we have softened enough we get to a place of calm.
And in that space of calmness a space opens up for self responsibility and recognition of what this game that we are playing is about and that WE have created it for our own learning purposes.
Blame is usefull and kind of importnat for the process, but it is very helpfull when we see the full picture of it to understand.
And this gets especially interestung when we take the question to the bigger picture of world problems. I realize I have started to apply this very much in my small affairs, but when people start talking about the worlds problems, the political suituation and blaming “THEM” (whoever they are: puppets, politicians, illuminatis…..) it’s just the same.
Take away power, blame someone else!
So this is an invitation to re think and discover the pain hidden behind the worlds happenings today.
This is our pain. And our game.
With love
Melanie
Emotional Healing 